“How can you tell if a girl likes you”? This is a question I get asked fairly often, and my answer is the same every time.
We have all been in a situation where we have our eye on a girl but aren’t sure if she likes us back. I get it, it can be stressful – especially if you are really into her. Unfortunately, and it doesn’t matter if you just met her or have known her for years, the harsh reality is if you have to ask yourself if she likes you or not, the answer is probably no. It sucks, but we all know its true. We just don’t want to admit it to ourselves because we like them. That’s why the best thing to do is just make a move and move on.
That really is the only way to do it. You can get their number and message them or play whatever game you want, but you’ll most likely miss your chance and be left always be wondering. The only way to really know if a girl likes you or not is to ask her out. People will come up with every excuse under the sun as to why they haven’t, but that’s exactly what they are, excuses. It makes sense and we all do it. We want some sort of assurance before we jump that there is water at the bottom of the well. The problem is, the well in this situation is a person and no one knows how they feel except them.
So, the only thing to do is suck it up, and be a man about it. Trust me, you will be better off for it. Women aren’t these strange, complex creatures we sometimes make them out to be. Ask her out, and if she says no, she isn’t interested. If she says yes, then she is. It’s as simple as that. Sometimes our fear of the outcome can complicate the situation and ultimately make it worse, but if you really like the person, there is no worse feeling than not knowing. And if you don’t really like them that much, or even know them for that matter, then you have absolutely nothing to loose.
Honestly, more times than not she be happy that you asked her; even if she says no. It shows confidence, and everyone respects someone who takes risks and goes for what they want. And who knows, somewhere down the line maybe she’ll change her mind. The games not over just because you missed a shot. At least now she knows that you’re interested.